A list of FIFTYY things of HAVEs' and DOs'!!

Live your DREAM!

Give time to your kids! they cherish that!

Take a chance coz you never know how perfect that'll turn out to be!

1. Have a firm handshake.
2. Look people in the eye.
3. Sing in the shower.
4. Own a great stereo system.
5. If in a fight, hit first and hit hard.
6. Keep secrets.
7. Never give up on anybody. Miracles happen everyday.
8. Always accept an outstretched hand.
9. Be brave. Even if you're not, pretend to be. No one can tell the difference.
10. Whistle.
11. Avoid sarcastic remarks.
12. Choose your life's mate carefully. From this one decision will come 90 per cent of all your happiness or misery.
13. Make it a habit to do nice things for people who will never find out.
14. Lend only those books you never care to see again.
15. Never deprive someone of hope; it might be all that they have.
16. When playing games with  children, let them win.
17. Give people a second chance, but not a third.
18. Be romantic.
19. Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
20. Loosen up. Relax. Except for rare life-and-death matters, nothing is as important as it first seems.
21. Don't allow the phone to interrupt important moments. It's there for our convenience, not the caller's.
22. Be a good loser.
23. Be a good winner.
24. Think twice before burdening a friend with a secret.
25. When someone hugs you, let them be the first to let go.
26. Be modest. A lot was accomplished before you were born.
27. Keep it simple.
28. Beware of the person who has nothing to lose.
29. Don't burn bridges. You'll be surprised how many times you have to cross the same river.
30. Live your life so that your epitaph could read, No Regrets
31. Be bold and courageous. When you look back on life, you'll regret the things you didn't do more than the one's you did.
32. Never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them.
33. Remember no one makes it alone. Have a grateful heart and be quick to acknowledge those who helped you.
34. Take charge of your attitude. Don't let someone else choose it for you.
35. Visit friends and relatives when they are in hospital; you need to only stay for a few minutes.
36. Begin each day with some of your favorite music.
37. Once in a while, take the scenic route.
38. Send a lot of Valentine cards. Sign them, 'Someone who thinks you're terrific.'
39. Answer the phone with enthusiasm and energy in your voice.
40. Keep a note pad and pencil on your bed-side table. Million-dollar ideas sometimes strike at 3 a.m.
41. Show respect for everyone who works for a living, regardless of how trivial their job.
42. Send your loved ones flowers. Think of a reason later.
43. Make someone's day by paying the toll for the person in the car behind you.
44. Become someone's hero.
45. Marry only for love.
46. Count your blessings.
47. Compliment the meal when you're a guest in someone's home.
48. Wave at the children on a school bus.
49. Remember that 80 per cent of the success in any job is based on your ability to deal with people.
50. Don't expect life to be fair 

College..In and around...! :)

MOOT COURT HALL!

CLASSROOM!

COMPUTER LAB!

MESS! BOY'S MESS! WE HAVE BLUE CHAIRS!

LIBRARYYY!

College..Everyone says is very different..Very special..
and there was this one thing which I used to discuss with a friend ..ki.."yaar college mein sabka boyfriend ban jaata hai, apna bhi ban jayega :P
hahahahaha!
and now I laugh whenever I think of this!
Because entering college I realised that all of this is just not what college is about!

Getting through CLAT and getting HNLU was a dream..believe me..when you drop a year and go through all the shit that happens during that one year..with depressing phases..with people talking about you taking a drop..geting into a national university feels like heaven!
Well I am not exaggerating..but the one who have gone through this can understand what misery it is when you drop a year!
Though I am more than happy that I left economics(h) *yes I was doing eco(h) at DU*
because it wasnt meant for me!
And the efforts paid and here I am!
Loving every bit of college!

Its a beautiful place to be! Yes I appreciate every bit of it!
Nothing is perfect and so that applies to my college too..
But I love imperfections! :D
A very big campus, under construction..well its just a two year old campus..so its still in the process of being built!
Spacious..Lovely classrooms!
AC library! wel the reason I love being there! lol.

And yes mostly nice people around!

I am loving this new phase..I have learnt appreciating the things I have..instead of cribbing about things I dont have!
That's LIFE! and We just get it ONCE!
xoxo

Well Just to Get back to BLOGGING!

So I was out of blogging since long..
Blame it on the college!
tight schedules..long syllabus..which the teachers havent taught!
Projects and then extra activities which include visits to city and sleeping and vellapanti!

So there's so much to write and so less time I sometimes think..but then I suddenly remember that my college is good enough to grant me 6 weeks sem break, which believe me makes me feel Elated!

So back to blogging I am!
Hope to keep posting some random yet awesome stuff!
I have many things to cover!
My Hostel Life!
New Friends!
New life!
New lessons!
New me!
And finally how was the first sem after all!!!

xoxo

THANK GOD ITS FRIDAYYYY!!!!

We are crazy and we know it!
We are awesome and we know it!
We are pretty and people know it!
We are the "do not mess with us kinds" !

Friends till death do us apart!
Because Sangya Negi and Gargi Sharma you hold me when I fall and make me smile when things go blue!and hell yeah..cant tell you how GLAD I am to find you! ♥

Fridayyy always brings happiness!
Guess why!!??
Because Weekend is knocking on the door..And especially when you are in the hostel, its actually the most awesome time of the week!


Though sleeping at the right time never happens once you enter college. Not because you are sleep deprived ..Its just that you dont feel like sleeping at the right time when you have awesome company!
And my company includes my two besties here..Sangya Negi and Gargi Sharma!


Though earlier friday nights I and Sangya used to stay up..chit-chat,talk,watch movies and just have fun! Pamper ourselves,pampering as in you know oiling your hair,taking care of your face,though its done on all days but on friday's its given SPECIAL treatment!! :D
We eat,We sing, Act like mad people..forgetting all that the hardships we have in our life!
Sleeping like 6 in the morning when the Sun is UP! Yes its just the begining to the memories we will cherish when we leave this place five years later! :)


This is the first friday night after SNAPS(fyi snaps is a kind of test I'l tell you later about) and we have Gargi with us for the first time!
And yes she's the bomb! She has PH.D in insulting people who act smart! ;)


So Yes this friday night  its gonna be a GIRLS NIGHT again!
A combination of Smartness,Prettiness and Hotness! :D 


Okay yes we are pretty self-obssessed and proud of it!!


Yes we have projects knocking on our head but then you know LIFE is for living!! :D
But we are a set of crazyyy people and this friday night has..


Movies.Music..Gossips..Craziness and yes Dont forget Eating too!! :D :)


Awesome isnt it?
 So that's why I say.."THANK GOD IT'S FRIDAY"!!!!

LOVE.. How It Goes..!

It seems that people search their whole life to find Love in its diverse forms. Yet, why are they never satisfied with what they find? Oh, for awhile it may seem satisfying, but eventually it gets old. Are we not, paradoxically, searching for that which we already have? Love is the state of our Being. There is nowhere to go and nothing to do. It is us.

Love is timeless. Have you ever noticed, when you see an old and dear friend again after many years, there is an instant rapport? It seems as though only yesterday you were together. That is Love. You have changed. They have changed. But something remains unchanged in your relationship. That is Love.

These are questions that I ask myself:
When I die, will my Love cease to be?
Is Love a function of my thoughts, feelings, or actions?
Is Love something I do?
Can you feel my Love if I don't do anything?
Behind all my fears, anger, dreams, disappointments, dramas, and tears, Love sits quietly. "Waiting for what?" you ask. Just waiting. Love is in no hurry. There is nowhere to go and nothing to do. It just waits. How do I relate to the Love that just waits? Is it waiting for me to recognize it? To become aware of it?

To know Love is to become Love. I am that which I behold. When I know Love, there is no separation between me and Love. I become as timeless and unlimited as Love. There is no separation. I am Love. Remembering I Am Love has brought me more fully into my Awakening.

Some say that Love can wither and die. But, that which is never born can never die. Love exists always. It exists everywhere. Love has never not existed. It cannot but exist. It is existence. It is.

What do I use to separate myself from Love and existence? I use fear. Fear makes me believe there is no Love. Like fish swimming in the sea and asking where is the water, we swim in a sea of Love and deny that it exists. Or, we say that it exists somewhere outside of us and that someday we may find it. If we're lucky.

Love is like the sky and everything else is like the clouds. Thoughts come and thoughts go. Feelingscome and feelings go. Lives come and lives go. But the sky remains the same, untouched by the fleetingness of life. The sky remains the same. Endless, endless expanse. The ongoingness of forever. This is Love.

The trick is to know Love and its unlimitedness while I experience limitation and feel that I amspace/time-bound. Accepting the seeming reality of the finite, I can move into the infinite. How does the awareness of that which is infinite influence my limited life? It gives me perspective. It gives me depth and vision, clarity and purpose, compassion and comprehension. And yet it is still a mystery. A beautiful mystery that continually unfolds and challenges me to expand who and what I believe myself to be.

To know Love and to know myself as Love, I must surrender to Love. I must let Love take me over. I must become drunk on Love. Out of control, woozy on its fumes, deliciously inebriated on its intoxicating high. Merge with Love and you will never be the same. Shower Love on others and watch them change. Love what you hate and watch yourself turn…into Love.

xoxo

Welcome to My World!

My name means Divine Brilliance!

Though I doubt if it really reflects me! :D

Now you already know a little about me..And I hope the upcoming posts will let you know the UNCENSORED ME! ;)

Anyway I'll start with what's this blog is going to be all about..

This blog is going to be about anything and everything!
I wont say I have gone through much in life..but yes there have been many ups and downs..and I can proudly say all this has helped me to learn what life is all about..and has made me what I am today..Still in the process of growing and evolving as a person!

I am a very random writer..and a random person..
Randomness, Unpredictability , Fun , Defines ME!
There are times when I dont know where I am going to end up!
And I like life that way..
Since I absolutely love surprises and Boredom bores me to the CORE!! :D

This blog will have posts about friendships..about my life..about my college life which started almost one and a half month back!
Posts about life lessons which are based on experiences of everyone around me..about experiences I have read somewhere.. and about things I have experienced in 19 years of my life!

Its about love..about hardships..about break ups and patch ups!
About happily ever after and Happily never after! :P
Its gonna have everything that's in my head.
It'l be about the lovely people who exist in my life!

It's not about any particular topic..It's just complete in itself! ;)

So all in all.
Its about everything which is going on in life..! :) 

xoxo

A little About ME! :)

I am an ordinary 19 year old girl..


I am from Jabalpur which is in Madhya Pradesh ..(The heart of INCREDIBLE INDIA)..
I am currently in Raipur in Hidayatullah National Law University which makes it obvious that I am a law student!





Yes..That's ME! :)


I am smiling and happy most of the times, when I am not, I won't talk. (:
I generally am not considered moody..but someone with a very bad temper..which goes as quickly as it comes!



I love rains..nature..coffee..travelling..the color yellow..the color black..the color white..music..talking..adventures..meeting people, dancing ! :D

I love people close to me..since they are a part of me which I never had thought of living without.

My family is a very integral part of me! :)
I love clicking pictures..I love socialising..I love long drives..I love long walks in the night under the starry sky.
I love being with friends!
I love sitting on roof tops!

I love lying down staring at the sky and just thinking bout life!
I love holding hands..!
I love hugs!
I love cuddles! :D
I am fun-loving..at times wild..like a crazy child..sometimes a serious person when it comes to giving advice! :)

I am amazingly caring..and a lil bit on the sensitive and emotional side.!

I like reading..I love dancing! I am carefree at times..Very ambitious! Very independent! Very down-to earth!
Very chilled out!
Basically I am a simple person with little complications who believes in living life without caring bout the world!

Photography and since the past two years writing are my new interests!
And I absolutely LOVE Cricket! :D


I really hope you enjoy reading this blog! :)

xoxo